The incoherent ramblings of a mentally ill Human
28
Sep
2014

Do I Love an Abusive Woman?

by Jason
 13

So far, since I started this blog, my most-read post is “Anger Management: My Wife Loses Control and I Lose My Mind”. In it, I talk about the rages my wife finds herself in where she becomes abusive, both mentally and physically, and how I react. I received so many comments from others who have experienced the pain of abuse from their partner, so I thought I would talk about it some more. The State of Affairs in My Household I don’t like to talk too much about my wife, […]

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26
Sep
2014

Depression, Anxiety, Concentration and Motivation

by Jason
 27

Since the last time I posted, things have gone downhill just a bit. Depression has gotten worse, anxiety has increased ten-fold and I’ve lost my concentration and motivation. I thought I would try to break up some of the tension by writing for a while in my favorite place. It’s amazing to me how, when you have a mental illness, you can be on top of the world one minute, then down in the dumps the next. Things turn so quickly, it’s hard to keep up with it. It’s so […]

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23
Sep
2014

Schizoaffective Disorder is Losing the Battle

by Jason
 39

If you’ve read any of my blog from the last few months you know I have been fighting a battle with Depressive-Type Schizoaffective Disorder. Sad to say, it’s been winning most of the time. But these past few weeks have given me hope that maybe one day I will be free, and I won’t have to deal with it anymore. I have been feeling good; really good. The last three weeks have given me a whole new perspective on things, and even if I relapse soon, I know I can […]

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19
Sep
2014

Just Not Feelin’ It – Depression That Is!

by Jason
 57

Hi everybody! Sorry I’ve been gone for so long but my schedule has been very full as of late. Changing My Life The reason I’ve been so busy is that I have been feeling so much better these days. I took someone’s advice and started doing research on the internet about naturally treating depression, and I have to say my eyes have been opened. I’ve drastically changed the way I live: no sugar or processed foods, been eating more proteins and foods with Omega-3’s, cut back on my caffeine and […]

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30
Aug
2014

Anger Management: Things Have Gotten So Much Better

by Jason
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I’ve been talking a lot with other men about how they are being treated by their wives, and it makes me look back just a few short months ago at how my relationship with my own wife was faring. My wife was angry all the time and often took it out on me. It had gotten so bad that I thought we may soon be splitting up. She just didn’t seem happy, and her bouts of extreme rage were really starting to affect me in a bad way. It seemed […]

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26
Aug
2014

Alive and Kicking: It’s Been a Very Busy Week

by Jason
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You may be wondering why I haven’t written anything in a while. Then again, looking at my traffic numbers, no one may be wondering. Either way, I’ve been very busy and I let my little blog fall by the wayside. I do have a few very good reasons for not writing sooner. Reason Number 1: I Haven’t Been Well Physically and emotionally, I’ve been a wreck. I started off the week depressed and anxious and I thought I was getting the flu because I was having terrible body aches. I […]

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20
Aug
2014

Keeping Busy is Helping my Schizoaffective Disorder

by Jason
 130

The past few weeks have been fairly awful for me. Depression, anxiety, suicidal thoughts and psychosis have been tearing my mind apart without letup. I felt like I was walking down a dark tunnel with no light at the end. But things are starting to change for me just a little bit. Yes, I still have depression and anxiety, but I stopped hearing voices and being so paranoid and the racing thoughts have calmed a bit where I can concentrate a little. What Made the Change for the Better? I […]

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16
Aug
2014

There is a Monster in My Mind

by Jason
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It only feels like it’s getting worse. The pissed-off monster inside my head won’t go away. It’s eating all the positive and shitting out negative all over the inside of my mind. This monster has a name: Schizoaffective Disorder. This monster only laughs at my attempts to make it go away. Medication, self-love and downright pleading for it to go away only make it happier to settle in and make itself at home. It’s been there all along, but only now it has decided to make mayhem and drive me […]

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14
Aug
2014

I Need to Make a Decision About My Mental Health, But it’s a Tough One

by Jason
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If you’ve read any of my blog up until now, you would know I have a problem. I can’t get decent mental health care in the Philippines, at least not that I can afford, and day-by-day my illness is getting worse. I know I need to do something drastic to help myself or else. I am at a point now where I am worried that my illness is bad enough where I may do something to myself that will either land me in the mental ward again or worse, end […]

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13
Aug
2014

Second Attempt: Depression, Anxiety, Psychosis and Robin Williams

by Jason
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Yesterday I tried to sit and write something, but all that came out was a big pile of shit. I’m going to attempt to write something today, even though I don’t feel any better. In fact. I feel worse. For some reason I have yet to fathom, I experienced a breakdown of epic proportions. The last few days have been a hell of depression, anxiety, voices in my head, racing thoughts and paranoia. I felt so bad yesterday that I don’t think I spent an hour out of bed the […]

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11
Aug
2014

Depression, Anxiety and Psychosis Finally Made Me Crash

by Jason
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I just woke up from a marathon 14 hour sleep session. I have been pushing myself too hard despite the depression and anxiety. I guess my body finally told me “enough is enough” and shut down. You’d think I should know better by now to take better care of myself when depression and anxiety come calling. Why I Have Been Depressed I don’t know how, when or why it started, but I feel like I have been stuck in a deep well for a long time now. The antidepressants don’t […]

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9
Aug
2014

What is Schizoaffective Disorder Anyway?

by Jason
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I talk a lot about living with Depressive Type Schizoaffective Disorder, but I don’t think I ever really explained what it is, how it relates to Schizophrenia, what are the symptoms of Schizoaffective Disorder, and how is it treated. Let’s get started. What is Schizoaffective Disorder? If you do a Google search for “What is Schizoaffective Disorder?” you get almost 10 million results, so I will narrow it down for you. One of the more trusted websites out there, Mayoclinic.org, describes Schizoaffective Disorder like this: “Schizoaffective disorder is a condition […]

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7
Aug
2014

10 Reasons I Hate Depression

by Jason
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Besides the anxiety I get from my anxiety disorder, the depression from my depressive type Schizoaffective Disorder has got to be the worst thing I deal with every day. The last two days have been hell. Last night was particularly bad and today isn’t looking much better. I deal with depression in some severity every day. Most times my antidepressants dull the ache enough where I can get through the day. Other times, I spiral down the rabbit hole and am barely able to function, and most times end up […]

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4
Aug
2014

Examining My Mental Illness Support System: What Helps and What Doesn’t

by Jason
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Everyone with a mental illness has a support system. It can be good or bad. I would rate mine about medium because I have some areas of support that are solid and unwavering and some that are bad or non-existent. I know I need to work on mine. Living with Depressive Type Schizoaffective Disorder should not be a lonely battle. I should strive to accept help from wherever I can get it. Areas That Need Work There are two big things missing from my treatment that I know would help […]

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2
Aug
2014

The Two Months Since My Suicide Attempt

by Jason
 285

It’s been a little over two months since I wrote a suicide note on my blog and then tried to kill myself. I’ve talked about that attempt several times, but I haven’t updated recently on how I am doing. It’s been a tough two months, but I am here to tell you my story, and that’s what matters. Month One: Dealing with the Aftermath The first month after my attempt was hard on me in so many ways. I was dealing with a whole lot of shame and embarrassment, and […]

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1
Aug
2014

I Don’t Want To Be Mentally Ill Anymore

by Jason
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Every day I think how nice it would be not to have Schizoaffective Disorder. I don’t necessarily want to be “normal”, because the new normal is boring and terrible in its own way. I just want to be rid of this disease and have a chance to do things other healthy people get to do. A Day Without Mental Illness: What Would it be Like? I often dream about having just one day where I could healthy and happy. I think about all the things I wouldn’t have to worry […]

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30
Jul
2014

Anger Management: My Wife and the Rules of the Road

by Jason
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My wife and I were driving back from the mall the other day. I was driving very careful like I always do, because the drivers in this country really are terrible. As I was driving along I was passing through an intersection and a guy in a big pickup truck decided he wasn’t going to stop and tried to make it through before me. I almost hit him. Well, my wife got very mad. At me! Evidently I am to blame for all the other driver’s horrible mistakes because I […]

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28
Jul
2014

Why Don’t I Show Any Emotion?

by Jason
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How is it that I can feel emotion but not show it? My emotions run the gamut every day. I do have to say most of them are negative: sadness, hopelessness, fear, anger, disgust, pain, weariness, confusion. But sometimes I feel good emotions, just sometimes: happiness, bewilderment, trust, wonder, amusement, pride, patience, love. I’m just like everyone else, even with my illness. The problem comes into play in that I am unable or unwilling to show any of these emotions. Most of the time, my face is impassive; like a […]

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27
Jul
2014

VLOG: Schizoaffective Disorder – Will the Voices Ever End?

by Jason
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Another video in the bag! The video and sound quality of this one is not very good. I plan on investing in some video equipment soon so my videos will be better. This is a short video about the experiences with voices I have been having recently. I hope you enjoy it or at least learn something. View this video on YouTube. Go to my YouTube channel and subscribe or leave a comment.     Photo Credit: “Digital 8” by User:Tukka – Own work. Licensed under CC BY-SA 3.0 via […]

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26
Jul
2014

The Broken Man: Haunted by Memories of Sexual Abuse

by Jason
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I’m reluctant to talk about this subject because I don’t want to give it any more power over me than it already has, but I just need to get it all out of my head. If you read my post yesterday, you’ll know that my voices came back again. Only this time it was a new voice I had never heard before. It was a mumbling man’s voice I couldn’t really make out, except for a few times where he called me a piece of shit. But then I had […]

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